With the busy schedules of our
daily lives it’s easy to lose sight that the greatest gift our partner gives us
is his or her company. One day you wake up and realize that the person sleeping
in you in your bed is a stranger. It doesn’t have to be this way though. If you
take time and celebrate the company of your partner you can rekindle the bonds
of love and the romance in your life.
The sound of the waves on the
beach. The caress of the gentle breeze. A beautiful sunset. The simple things
can be all that’s necessary to light the fires of love. There is no need for an
expensive gift or grand gesture to day “I love you.” But it is necessary to
detach from the routine of daily living and take some time to nurture the union
with the body and soul.
You may start by letting your
partner know that you appreciate their company. The most common mistake of
emotionally estranged couples is taking for granted their relationship.
Remember your partner does not really owe you anything. She or he sharing a
life with you is a gift, a privilege. Be sincerely grateful that you partner
chose to share a life with you for a minute or a decade. And remember that actions
speak louder than words. Don’t just say it, act like you love your partner.
Nurture an empathic bond with
your partner. Many times we become so self absorbed that we demand
understanding from our partner but do not seek to understand our partner. This
is one of the most destructive patterns for any couple. Try to understand. And when
you don’t understand… ask. You’ll be surprised how tolerant your partner will
become if there is a sincere attempt at understanding. And greater mutual
understanding nurtures a greater love.
The information in this blog is not a substitute for a medical evaluation. Consult with your physician about any health concerns you have.
For appointments with Dr. Douglas J. Romero call 787-764-5642 or visit www.mimejoramiento.com
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